Finding Fun Again: Balancing Social Life, Creativity, and Just Doing Things for the Joy of It

Over the past few years, I've spent a lot of time building a career that is both meaningful and creative. I’ve been lucky to turn things I love into part of my professional life—writing, speaking, designing programs—and it's been an incredible journey. But like many of us, I’ve also learned that commodifying your hobbies can be a double-edged sword.

Turning passions into work can be fulfilling, but it also means you sometimes start viewing every hobby through the lens of productivity or "how can this serve my career?"

And somewhere in that mindset, pure fun can get lost.

This spring, I'm reclaiming fun—whatever that looks like.

Sometimes, fun is getting dressed up and going out, being social, laughing too loud, and staying out later than planned. Other times, it's curling up with a good book, ignoring the outside world, and spending a whole day in cozy solitude. Neither version is better than the other; it's about listening to what I need in the moment.

I've learned that it's important to have activities that are just for me—things that don't need to be shared, monetized, or turned into "content." Hobbies that aren't side hustles. Moments that aren't posts. Memories that are mine alone.

Some of the ways I'm reconnecting with fun include:

• Reading fiction without feeling like I need to take notes.

• Cooking just to enjoy the process (and the meal).

• Going on spontaneous day trips with no agenda.

• Sending letters to pen pals, just because it feels good.

• Trying crafts or activities without worrying if I'm "good" at them.

Having fun—real, unfiltered, unproductive fun—is essential. It reminds us that joy is valuable for its own sake. It replenishes creativity. It recharges our spirit.

So whether it's a big night out or a quiet evening in, I'm making space for both. I'm reminding myself that life isn't only about achieving; it's about experiencing.

How are you making space for fun this season? I'd love to hear your ideas!